Friend or faux?

Sometimes when speaking (or trying to speak) French I find myself lulled into a false sense of security by the familiarity of many of the words. Surely, I think naively to myself, if I just say the English word in my most outrageous French accent, they’ll understand what I mean? Sadly, it doesn’t always work like that, and this is because of the very many tricky little words (known as false friends) that are spelt almost exactly like those in English, but which have either subtly, or sometimes devastatingly, different meanings. Some of the most unnerving include les baskets – trainers (shoes); eventuellement, which means possible, not eventually, and could get you into all sorts of problems at work; plein, which can mean full, but can also mean pregnant – look out in restaurants; and deranger, which is actually my favourite little false friend, because I do love phoning people up and starting the conversation by hoping that I am not deranging them (ie. disturbing them), which surely I will be by the end of the conversation with me in French! But the one which for me, takes le biscuit* in the confusion prize, is terrible, which can mean both terrific, and terrible. How do you know which? Search me.

*Biscuits, gateaux, crackers etc open another whole can of worms in the false friend department (‘scuse mixed metaphor) which I will attempt to decipher at a later date.

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The subjunctive? Nah, you don’t really need that….do you?

The subjunctive? Nah, you don’t really need that….do you?

Well, I had been ticking along quite nicely for a few weeks on the communication front. No problems ordering my baguette in the boulangerie, my address simply tripping off my tongue, only causing my daughter’s teacher to wince twice in our little after school chat, that kind of encouraging stuff, when wham! My French teacher arrives chez moi one evening with a dangerous glint in her eye and announces that there is this tricky little thing called the subjunctive, and it’s very very complicated and you need to use it nearly every time you say something. Which means you need to memorise all the correct verbs endings and, of course, 99% of them are horribly, deformedly, abnormally, irregular. Why is it necessary? Can’t we just pretend we don’t need it and carry on as before? Surely, like gender-specific articles, we can just mutter something unintelligible and move swiftly on? Please? It’s enough to make you drop French and take up Swahili instead. I’m nearly positive Tanzanians don’t care a jot about the subjunctive* and are much, much happier as a result.

*OK so someone is probably going to prove me wrong – the gauntlet is down…

Manège or ménage? On the carousel of life

So, this much I know. One of them means housework. And the other one means a merry-go-round. But which is which, I can never remember. Let’s see – housework or merry-go-round, merry-go-round or housework? I’ll take the merry-go-round please, you can have the housework.

Quinzaine, and other mathematical oddities

Something tells me the French are not top of the class when it comes to maths. Don’t get me wrong – they’re a very intellectual bunch and frightfully creative in literature and art – but maths, not sure it’s their strong point. Exhibit 1: Their equivalent of a fortnight*, which as we all know equals 14 days, is the word ‘quinzaine’. Fine, I hear you shout. No, not fine. Look it up in the dictionary – in mine it says it means ‘fifteen (or so)’ – that is an exact quote. Fifteen or so?! Now hang on a minute. It’s all very well to be poetic and flowery about many things, and the French are good at that and I love them for it. But I really do think that when we’re talking numbers a little more precision can be helpful.

Exhibit 2: numbers above 69. Up to 69 things are good in French, straightforward, no messing about. But we hit 70 and life starts to get messy. You can’t just up and say 70, no, no, no, nothing so simple. You have to do a little sum. And it gets worse – hit 80 and you need to involve your 20 times table, for goodness sake. Which is ok I suppose once you get used to it. But then you reach 90 and things go really badly wrong. Because we’re getting into complex equations by this point. We have to do our 20 times table and then add something on to it. After many months of gnashing my teeth and wondering why we don’t move to Belgium or Switzerland, where they have got rid of soixante-dix, quatre-vingt and quatre-vingt-dix etc in favour of septante, octante/huitante, and nonante, I did start to accept it. But then I realised that even if you’re French and used to it, it’s a pain in the neck because you’re always having to cross things out and start again. Like when I dictate my phone number, which ends with 93, to some poor innocent taking down my details (and who is usually just getting over trying to decipher my address – see above). I start that part of the number by saying ‘quatre-vingt…’ and they diligently write down the 8, and then I pounce with the ‘treize’ and they have to sigh, cross out the 8 and replace it with a 9. And it happens every time, even when I try to talk so fast that they don’t have time to get that 8 down before the treize comes along.

Come on people – think how much time and money you could save by being colonised by Belgium!

 

*Actually to be fair, fortnight is not all that obvious as a term for two weeks either is it? Four nights? Case dismissed.

Outrageous French accent*

OK, so I’ve been living in France for three and a half years now, and I have learnt pitifully little about French, French life or French wine. Except this (and I’ve learnt this one the hard way): never live in a street (or a village for that matter) you can’t pronounce. It causes many, many problems. These problems are compounded by the fact that we live at number 35. Which is fine, that part I can say. But then there are all the other 35s – next door, at the back, across the road and so on. Clearly someone was having a bad day when they did the numbering for our road. So not only do I have to pronounce the long and convoluted name in my best and most outrageous French accent, but I also need to explain that we are the number 35 with the green rusty mailbox, the long drive and the slightly wonky gate.

PS If you’re wondering about the ‘vache espagnol’, there’s an endearing little expression in French to the effect of “Elle parle francais comme une vache espagnol”. I thought it apt.

 

*With apologies to Monty Python